THE SCHOOL ISSUE: JUNIOR HIGH
Coming Out in Middle School
By BENOIT DENIZET-LEWIS
Published: September 23, 2009
SUMMARY: The trials and tribulations of young gay and lesbian adolescents, as well as the challenges of coping with family relations and same-sex dating while in the teen years.
"Austin didn't know what to wear to his first gay dance last spring. It was bad enough that the gangly 13-year-old from Sand Springs, Okla., had to go without his boyfriend at the time, a 14-year-old star athlete at another middle school, but there were also laundry issues. "I don't have any clean clothes!" he complained to me by text message, his favored method of communication.
When I met up with him an hour later, he had weathered his wardrobe crisis (he was in jeans and a beige T-shirt with musical instruments on it) but was still a nervous wreck. "I'm kind of scared," he confessed. "Who am I going to talk to? I wish my boyfriend could come." But his boyfriend couldn't find anyone to give him a ride nor, Austin explained, could his boyfriend ask his father for one. "His dad would give him up for adoption if he knew he was gay," Austin told me. "I'm serious. He has the strictest, scariest dad ever. He has to date girls and act all tough so that people won't suspect."
- writes author Benoit Denizet-Lewis
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